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10/31/2016 0 Comments

Cultivating a Pilgrim's Heart: Answering the Call to Adventure

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To journey without being changed is to be a nomad. To change without journeying is to be a chameleon. To journey and be transformed by the journey is to be a pilgrim. -Mark Nepo

I am utterly fascinated by people who, tired of a grid-locked life, decide to leave their routine and predictable lives in favor of adventure. I am especially interested in the modern day sojourners who are taking on an ancient pilgrimage that Christians began in the Middle Ages. The Camino de Santiago is a 500 mile trek that begins in Southern France and ends in Northern Spain. The passage marks the “Way of St. James” or the route that the remains of the great Saint were carried from Jerusalem to his burial site in Santiago de Compostela, Spain. The people that walk the Camino are referred to as “pilgrims” and each town offers special lodging, food rates and specific care such as washing and bandaging their sore and blistered feet. The journey is undertaken by people from all walks of life and varying ages—there are no particular requirements for the pilgrimage--just that one cultivate the heart of the pilgrim by opening oneself to be transformed by the journey.

People from various religious and spiritual traditions have been making pilgrimages for centuries. The most well known pilgrimage sites are places where saints lived and died, miracles were performed and other numinous events took place. These sacred sites honor the meeting places of the Divine and human; the merging of the timeless with the temporal on this planet. Pilgrimages honor our personal quests for truth, awakening, transformation and healing. They temporarily call us out of and away from our familiar lives in order to experience life on different terms—terms not entirely of our own making which create the exact opportunities necessary for our personal transformation. The real pilgrimage points us in the direction of an inner journey to self-discovery and true soul fulfillment.  


We are each invited to make our own particular pilgrimages throughout the course of our lives. It takes tremendous courage to accept the calls of our lives because the nature of a calling is that we are invited to step into an entirely new experience. We are asked to go where we have never gone before. The way may not be clear and well-travelled. As the Spanish poet Antonio Machado declares: "Traveler, there is no path. Paths are made by walking." 

Recognizing a Calling in Our Lives
The definitive qualities of a calling can be contrasted with the familiar habits and ways of living that can be understood as our conditioning. Here is a brief look at some of the differences between the two:

CALLING:                                                 CONDITIONING:


Intrinsic (motivated from within)         Extrinsic (motivated from outside)
Creative                                                  Prescribed
Unknown                                                Known 
Adventure                                               Pre-planned tour
Individualized                                         Generalized
Felt/Sensed                                            Planned/strategized
Mystery                                                   Rationality
Wild                                                         Tamed
Intuitive                                                   Logical
Soul-Centric                                           Egocentric
Circular                                                   Linear
Pilgrimage                                               Promotion
Process                                                    Product

While a calling is connected to an inner longing that puts us on the path to fulfilling our purpose, the initial catalyst to making a significant change in our lives is often initiated by outer life circumstances or events such as new discoveries or experiences, transitions, or specific crises or challenges such as illness, death, or divorce. For others there is a restlessness or subtle sense of dissatisfaction with the status quo and a readiness for “something more.” 


I have been able to identify five distinct characteristics of a calling:


  • An Invitation is Offered 
What makes some people susceptible to hearing a call to leave the familiar while others seem perfectly content with life as it is? As I’ve mentioned: certain life circumstances conspire to cultivate the necessary conditions for our call to be delivered. Those conditions include discoveries, difficulties, transitions, or inner restlessness. In some way the universe is trying to get our attention by saying: “Come on, there is much more that is possible for you. Let’s go!” We always have a choice whether we will accept or refuse the call. Both options present their own challenges, however, refusal of a call often brings its own trouble and heroes that refuse the quest often become those in need of rescuing in the future.
 
  • Recognition
A familiarity or deeper knowing is activated. Our call doesn’t necessarily match any previous experiences we’ve had, yet it feels close to our heart and kindles a certain nostalgia for something we recognize but cannot name. It is familiar while still being unknown. Our Soul senses the unique opportunity and begins to stir while our ego just wants to roll over and go back to sleep. However, once the Soul awakens, it becomes more difficult to remain asleep.

  • Fear and Trembling
Saying “yes” to a call means giving up the safety and security of our comfortable lives and stepping into the unknown. Resistance is to be expected as all of our conditioning warns against this kind of risk. Acknowledge your fear as a threshold that must be crossed as you commit to moving forward. The Quakers believed that shaking was a sign of truth being revealed. See your own trembling as holy revelation rather than a harbinger of danger.

  • Vulnerability 
In addition to the resistance, there is a feeling that you aren’t fully equipped for the adventure. You may not believe that you are ready. You may doubt that you have what it takes. This particular vulnerability is a vital component of the calling because you are not meant to have all of the necessary resources when the adventure begins precisely because you will be given the perfect opportunities along the way to discover exactly what is needed. The gifts come by making the journey; not beforehand.

  • Aliveness
Despite the fear, resistance and doubt that surface, there is a more powerful energy of aliveness behind a call. It is that very thread of vitality that ignites a feeling of meaning and purpose that propels us on. We sense the promise that what we are to gain by responding to the call will be greater than our thought of refusal. It is this attraction to aliveness; the desire to explore the frontiers of our personal potential that urges us to step forward. Our callings are meant to serve our deeper purpose for being alive. They lead us into the heart of our original longing to discover who we are and why we have been created. Callings are a blessing on our lives that offer us the opportunity to experience our own private meeting with the Sacred within our individual human journey. 

Your Pilgrim Heart
Not all of us are able to undertake the kind of pilgrimages that would have us take leave of our everyday lives for an extended period of time, nor is it necessary. However, we can always choose to view our current lives as a sacred journey. What would it mean for you to step into this metaphor of pilgrimage within the context of your life? How would perceiving yourself as a pilgrim on a sacred adventure alter your the ways you experience the everyday adventure? Cultivating a pilgrim’s heart requires a willingness to release your fixed expectations or rigid attachments while doing your best to remain open and curious; allowing the journey itself to inform your walking. While the framework and pathways of a traditional pilgrimage have already been established, the nature of what you will experience and receive personally will differ greatly from another and cannot be predicted. Trust that you will be given exactly what you need as you go. Call on the help of guides and allies in both the visible and invisible worlds. Allow one step to lead to the next—trust the process. Expect the alchemy of the adventure to work miracles in your life. Magic happens when we are willing to follow our heart’s call more fully into this wild and wondrous world while holding the tender remembrance that we are only passing through this place.

Personal Reflection
To deepen your own understanding of calling in your life, consider journaling your responses to these questions:


When have you received a call in the past? Describe the time and what was happening in your life.

What current discoveries, circumstances or events in your own life might be catalyzing a call?


Are you able to identify the deeper longing of your heart by saying “yes” to this call?

Which of the five characteristics of a call resonate most with you? Why?

A few qualities of the “pilgrim heart” that I name are “openness, connection to invisible and visible help, curiosity, trust, and willingness.” What specific qualities do you feel are important for you to cultivate for your personal journey?
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